We are living in a time where men are under constant attack, and it is
critical for men to have the right partner to stand with them to bring
balance. No man or woman is perfect – perfecting is a process. Many
women today would will more readily curse their men rather than pray for
them and speak blessings over them.
Women, the main fact that you are chosen to be the queen, it means that
God has given you a level of grace to deal with the problems that may
arise.

From the beginning of time in the Garden of Eden, Satan has been after
the men – the high priests, fathers and husbands – and launched an all-out
war on them. The men represent headship, family leadership and the
image of God. They are the covering and intercessors for their families.
They are the kings who have been given the authority to name and rename
things. This is why there is such a fight.
There are many organizations formed to bring men down and to discredit
them, destroy their families and some also seek to replace men as the
headship of the family – thereby standing against God’s original plan for the
family.
The spirits of Jezebel and Delilah exist to destroy men by weakening them,
and ultimately abort their purpose. Oftentimes, women want men to
change to become what they as women want them to be; but women must
come to the understanding that men were formed, women were made and
so they were created differently. They function differently and their roles
are different. Women must begin to pray that the men become who God
wants them to become, because they are for His purpose.

Identity Crisis
To be the roof is not easy, because the sun, heat and elements come
beating down on it first with great intensity. This is the situation with the
men who are the covering for their family.
Many want to change the identity of the men. However, in Genesis 1: 26 –
27, God clearly outlines His plans and blueprint for the human race. What

God did not create He does not bless; and what He does not bless will not
be fruitful. Our job is to be fruitful, multiply and replenish the earth.
There is great effort being made to control the population globally, and a
big part of it includes changing the identity of our men. The males of our
species are the carriers of the seed which produces life. He has the word
in his mouth and he can either bless or curse. So, when the men are out of
line, the body (the family) suffers.

The Role Of The Men
Contrary to popular belief, a man’s function goes beyond producing,
transporting and maintaining semen. They are responsible for the total
welfare of the family, and he must lead, guide, discipline, protect, provide
physically and spiritually for their family and protect them from evil. They
must be examples of Godliness, holiness and righteousness.
While most men may provide physically, they fail to provide spiritually.
They must ensure that their families walk in obedience to God’s Word. A
husband who is not faithful to God cannot be faithful to his wife. While the
man may have many pitfalls, they must never compare themselves with
others.
Most men are broken and have been abandoned by their fathers. Most are
fearful of failing to protect and provide for their families. So many have a
fear of not living up to expectations. There are some out there who suffer
the same abuse as women but society is silent on it. So, it is critical for the
women to identify these things and pray against the daily attacks that come
against the men. Men need to have faith in God, set their goals and do not
quit!

Men, be confident and let your self esteem increase. Look to God to set
you free from all bondage. Build your foundation on Him and pray daily.
Where your earthly father has abandoned you, your Heavenly Father is
always with you and will not leave you. Do not allow society to dictate who
you are; instead fulfill the purpose for which God created you.